My point in saying going to the gym is my way of saying to pick yourself up by the bootstraps and get busy. Life is tough at times...we all know that, but sometimes you just need to get out there and try to make the best of things. I've had about the worst year in my life for many, many reasons I won't go into. Everything will fall into place when the time is right. It won't happen sitting in front of a computer or t.v. Of course I'm taking a lot of cold medicine right now so I may not be making much sense.
Take what you need and leave the rest (a friend of mine always says).