Quote Originally Posted by hmmmm
My point in saying going to the gym is my way of saying to pick yourself up by the bootstraps and get busy. Life is tough at times...we all know that, but sometimes you just need to get out there and try to make the best of things. I've had about the worst year in my life for many, many reasons I won't go into. Everything will fall into place when the time is right. It won't happen sitting in front of a computer or t.v. Of course I'm taking a lot of cold medicine right now so I may not be making much sense.
Take what you need and leave the rest (a friend of mine always says).
I hear you; understandable. And I know that things wont happen by not getting out there -- I know that. But I have tried the internet for many, many years....sure, I found dates, flings, and even relationships thanks to the singles websites out there. I didnt plan on locking myself in a room and watching DVDs forever, expecting something to knock on my door....in all fairness, however, they say that you are supposed to meet the person you are supposed to be with by pure chance when you are not expecting it, or not "putting yourself out there."

But nothing seemed to last with the internet women I met. Its making me think perhaps 30 is too late to find true companionship.

Hope you feel better, BTW.