RGA- I know this isn't the appropriate site for this communication, but I want to reach out anyway.

I'm very sorry to hear about your Dad. My Dad had an extremely similar situation. He was diagnosed with lung cancer and it spread all along his chest and into his lymphnodes. He was doing okay for a while when on chemo, but then his body could no longer take it. Eventually, he went into palliative care and passed away a few days later (that was January 2004). I totally agree with the medical sciences- I never thought I'd feel this way until my family had to experience it.

Sorry if I brought you done at all. If you ever want to chat, let me know.

Anyway, I wish you and your family the best!

Good luck!
Eric