Sorry to burst your bubble, but being an Audiophile as I have found out is not just about being a Music Lover. Just about anybody you ask will say they like music. But they don't spend thousands of dollars on a stereo. So there is something distinctly different that sets us apart from the masses. I challenge you to do as I've done, go through your entire music collection and play each and every song or better still play somebody elses music that they like and I guarantee you that you won't put up with music you don't like for very long, even if it sounds good audio wise.
Being an audiophile is more like the reasons you gave for liking 'The Wall', listening to songs you 'like', and hearing all the nuances and powerful bass, etc.. And don't confuse this with 'Gear Heads' who like to take speakers and amps apart and rebuild them, by definition they may not really be audiophiles, but technicians, if I can call em that.