Man, a person can get mentally exhausted by listening to both sides and try to figure out who is right. And some of responses can get down right fire(y) and hostile, calling other posters liars or gullible.

May be we should ban DBT discussion on this forum also to see if we can reduced some of the heat that has been generated around here. IMO, hostility will take away the credibility no matter which side it is emitted from.