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Originally Posted by JSE
So does GM need to throw a "newly single party"? I bet he already has some nice ladies ready for you.
JSE
So far I only have a few hot Latino types lined up. I'm hoping to fill in with a little variety before I'm ready for the party. Jes says that she'll be there but can't do any drinking.
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Originally Posted by GMichael
So far I only have a few hot Latino types lined up (for tex)...
Yeah, so BACK OFF!!! :mad5:
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Originally Posted by Rich-n-Texas
Yeah, so BACK OFF!!! :mad5:
Easy now Tex. I'm working on getting both sets of the cheerleaders from Wooch's thread to join in. There should be no shortage of hotties to go around. So please try to share. Remember, poke & pass.
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Originally Posted by JSE
Only you can make the choice you did so nobody can really say you did the right or wrong thing but.....
Just to play Devil's Advocate,
Maybe she was testing you? Maybe she she was unsure about your true commitment to her and got the Tattoos as a test.
That was a piss poor test if that was the case. I would have chosen something that was FAR less controversial, and who's consequences were not spelled out before hand. Besides, I do not play those sort of games. If I am with you 5 years, I am serious as a heart attack during a blizzard!
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Maybe she felt that if you would let the tattoos come between you guys then you were not worth staying with.
If that were the case, she could have left years ago, and painted herself up like a picture. She never mentioned she wanted tatoo's(even before I mention I hated them) in five years that I have known her. So I was pretty surprised that she got two. I hope the tatoo's were important to her, more important than her desire to get married.
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So maybe you failed the test in her eyes and she was willing to accept the potential and now real outcome.
I failed that test when I first mentioned how much I hated them years ago. At that point she should have walked away. She never appeared bothered by my hate of tatoo's, and she certainly never responded when I went on a tangent about them. This was truely a surprise to me!
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Again, just giving you a different viewpoint. Bottom line is she knew the risk going in and she was willing to take that risk.
Sadly I think she underestimated how much she could get away with. She could overspend money, I don't care. She could leave makeup all over the bathroom, I don't care. There were literally thousands of things she could have done, and I wouldn't have cared. But she chose the thing I DID care about, and threw that in me mug. Not a good move, especially when you have it so good.
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So does GM need to throw a "newly single party"? I bet he already has some nice ladies ready for you.
JSE
Meh, I do not think I am getting back in the market so soon. I am re-mixing and touching up soundtracks for bluray like crazy right now, have a post production facility I am opening in a few months, and two boys that will be graduating from college(Stanford and USC). I think I'd rather focus on those things, at least until the two knuckle heads are out of school before jumping back in(if I ever do). I am not the type that gets lonely, there are far too many things in my life that I enjoy. Now I can turn the hometheater up when watching movies, leave dishes in the sink overnight, leave the toilet seat up, and not have to fund a afternoon of shopping with the girls. I am gonna miss her, but not quite as much as I thought. What is done, is done. I find it difficult to march forward while looking back.
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Oh, by the way. Will there be ribs and chicken at this party? If so, I am in:3:
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Originally Posted by Sir Terrence the Terrible
Oh, by the way. Will there be ribs and chicken at this party? If so, I am in:3:
LJ is always in charge of the grill. He likes to make steaks but he may be able to make a little room for some ribs and chicken.
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Originally Posted by Sir Terrence the Terrible
That was a piss poor test if that was the case. I would have chosen something that was FAR less controversial, and who's consequences were not spelled out before hand. Besides, I do not play those sort of games. If I am with you 5 years,
" I am serious as a heart attack during a blizzard! " a Pixel moment if I've ever seen one.
If that were the case, she could have left years ago, and painted herself up like a picture. She never mentioned she wanted tatoo's(even before I mention I hated them) in five years that I have known her. So I was pretty surprised that she got two. I hope the tatoo's were important to her, more important than her desire to get married.
** You showed her.
I failed that test when I first mentioned how much I hated them years ago. At that point she should have walked away. She never appeared bothered by my hate of tatoo's, and she certainly never responded when I went on a tangent about them. This was truely a surprise to me!
She could overspend money, I don't care.
She could leave makeup all over the bathroom, I don't care.
There were literally thousands of things she could have done, and I wouldn't have cared.
Ooooo.... your all I've got tonight...
You're all I've got tonight...
I need you, tonight. Wasn't that the Cars
But she chose the thing I DID care about, and threw that in me mug. Not a good move, especially when you have it so good.
The more you write the more transparent you become. You expect a woman to bow to you because you provide all this monetary support. You don't need a mate you need a mistress. You're cold dude.
Meh, I do not think I am getting back in the market so soon. I am re-mixing and touching up soundtracks for bluray like crazy right now, have a post production facility I am opening in a few months, and two boys that will be graduating from college(Stanford and USC). I think I'd rather focus on those things, at least until the two knuckle heads are out of school before jumping back in(if I ever do). I am not the type that gets lonely, there are far too many things in my life that I enjoy.
** You'll always be a threesome, you, your head and the unfortunate one you decide to hook up with next. You know what they say, 3 is a crowd.
Now I can turn the hometheater up when watching movies, leave dishes in the sink overnight, leave the toilet seat up, and not have to fund a afternoon of shopping with the girls. I am gonna miss her, but not quite as much as I thought. What is done, is done. I find it difficult to march forward while looking back.
** Ah, the important things in life, it is good....
I know you will blast me with a post of immature name calling as well as anyone who gives you an alternate opinion of what you did. It is apparent you thought you'd come on here and get a bunch of gradification from boys patting you on the back and way to go. I am personally glad to see most here have more substance about them. You come off as a shallow, materialistic, erogant, heartless, lost soul.
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Originally Posted by Mr Peabody
** Ah, the important things in life, it is good....
I know you will blast me with a post of immature name calling as well as anyone who gives you an alternate opinion of what you did. It is apparent you thought you'd come on here and get a bunch of gradification from boys patting you on the back and way to go. I am personally glad to see most here have more substance about them. You come off as a shallow, materialistic, erogant, heartless, lost soul.
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Originally Posted by GM
LJ is always in charge of the grill. He likes to make steaks but he may be able to make a little room for some ribs and chicken.
L.J. I think I remember a guy here with that name. It was a long time ago though. :idea:
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Originally Posted by Mr Peabody
** Ah, the important things in life, it is good....
I know you will blast me with a post of immature name calling as well as anyone who gives you an alternate opinion of what you did. It is apparent you thought you'd come on here and get a bunch of gradification from boys patting you on the back and way to go. I am personally glad to see most here have more substance about them. You come off as a shallow, materialistic, erogant, heartless, lost soul.
Peabody, no I am not going to waste my time with you. You are a pimple on the ass of a elephant as far as I am concerned. Your opinion is most at home in a refuse bin. There is no way I can be erogant, and If I am shallow, you are non existant. When it comes to you, heartless is about right, and it is impossible to be a person of substance when talking to you because you lack substance yourself. I wasn't looking for any gratification, there can be no gratification in a situation like this. I also wasn't looking for an opinion from a cry baby who would rather spill tears over something rather than do something about it. You words are hollow, just like your head.
Your alternate opinion was nothing more than a childish dig. You could have kept that to yourself. FA opinion was far more valid than yours. She made her point without the attitude, something you should take note of in the future.
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Originally Posted by Rich-n-Texas
BTW, nice job trying to burn down Universal Studios. :rolleyes: Can't do ANYTHING right can ya?
Curiously, he ignored this. :sosp:
See what happens when he gets pissed off Mr. P? :yikes:
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Originally Posted by Rich-n-Texas
Curiously, he ignored this. :sosp:
See what happens when he gets pissed off Mr. P? :yikes:
Do you really think I am going to tell that I burnt down Universal's backlot? Damn, I just told!:devil:
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Hey mang
Didja at least shout "Cuba Libre!!" when ya threww the Molotov cocktail?
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Originally Posted by Sir Terrence the Terrible
I do not have many things that bother me, but tatoos bother me, and I can not and do not want to get "over" it. What do you folks think?
I guess I'm the dissenting voice here. While I'm not into women with "sleeves" like Kat Von D, I find small colorful ones ok. Not the typical "biker blue" variety mind you. My conservative, straight laced, phi beta kappa Dean of a college wife has three: A small flower on her ankle, a pattern on her shoulder, and one on her lower back. To each his or her own.
As for your situation, I can only say that trust and respect is essential for a relationship. Perhaps this issue with your GF is indicative of deeper differences.
rw
PS: Hey guys, shall we tone it down a bit? No need to attack each other, right?
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Originally Posted by bobsticks
Didja at least shout "Cuba Libre!!" when ya threww the Molotov cocktail?
I wasn't that smart:o
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Originally Posted by bobsticks
Didja at least shout "Cuba Libre!!" when ya threww the Molotov cocktail?
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!! :lol:
He didn't have to. The sun was reflecting offa his dome. Everyone could see who it was.
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Originally Posted by E-Stat
PS: Hey guys, shall we tone it down a bit? No need to attack each other, right?
The voice of reason. He he, snicker snicker...
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Originally Posted by Rich-n-Texas
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!! :lol:
He didn't have to. The sun was reflecting offa his dome. Everyone could see who it was.
Grrrrrrrr:incazzato:
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Grow some hair back and you won't have to get mad when I say things like that!
Oh... wait... :lol:
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Originally Posted by Rich-n-Texas
Grow some hair back and you won't have to get mad when I say things like that!
Oh... wait... :lol:
I didn't know that he was a Mexican hairless.
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Originally Posted by Rich-n-Texas
Grow some hair back and you won't have to get mad when I say things like that!
Oh... wait... :lol:
But I like being bald headed, its a chica magnet. Personally I would rather be bald than....well.....portly:yesnod:
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Originally Posted by E-Stat
I guess I'm the dissenting voice here.
Well, not totally. I don't have a problem with tats in moderation. This thread isn't about my opinion on tattoos or anyone else's, it's about control and the battle for equality within relationships. The tattoo thing is a symptom that peeps seem to get caught up on.
Put it this way, boys say you come home to the significant other in flagrante dilecto in a gangbang with ten biker types. For 99 out of 100 of you there will be some discord around the homestead because infedelity is usually a dealbreaker...and that's a value judgement. Whether any of us agree with tattoos being on the same level of importance, they do to Terence. The repercussion for him is that that commitment lessens the pool of prospective partners. So be it.
In the midst of some decrying the lack of commitment in modern relationships and jumping on T's values folks are missing the trees for the forrest. After five years of no body art, ol' girl shows up with fresh paint and says "hey honey, look what I brought home".Smacks of manipulation from this point of view. My current girlfriend hates heavy industrial music. If I play Psychopomps there'll be some dissent and Einsturzende Neubauten will clear the house...so I don't play 'em. I've got three thousand discs of different genres--the analogous phrase would be three thousand different ways to express myself "artistically"---so why be a heat seeker? Evidently T's old lady felt differently. Again, her right but there's repercussions for all of us.
We all meet here for our daily coffee talk (beer talk for Swishy) but we really don't know each other all that well. Things in folk's pasts color their opinions and form their values. A little support for one of our bretheren wouldn't be out of order.
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I'm not "portly". I'm well proportioned. :ihih:
And... everything sticks said. :yesnod:
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Originally Posted by bobsticks
Well, not totally. I don't have a problem with tats in moderation. This thread isn't about my opinion on tattoos or anyone else's, it's about control and the battle for equality within relationships. The tattoo thing is a symptom that peeps seem to get caught up on.
Put it this way, boys say you come home to the significant other in flagrante dilecto in a gangbang with ten biker types. For 99 out of 100 of you there will be some discord around the homestead because infedelity is usually a dealbreaker...and that's a value judgement. Whether any of us agree with tattoos being on the same level of importance, they do to Terence. The repercussion for him is that that commitment lessens the pool of prospective partners. So be it.
In the midst of some decrying the lack of commitment in modern relationships and jumping on T's values folks are missing the trees for the forrest. After five years of no body art, ol' girl shows up with fresh paint and says "hey honey, look what I brought home".Smacks of manipulation from this point of view. My current girlfriend hates heavy industrial music. If I play Psychopomps there'll be some dissent and Einsturzende Neubauten will clear the house...so I don't play 'em. I've got three thousand discs of different genres--the analogous phrase would be three thousand different ways to express myself "artistically"---so why be a heat seeker? Evidently T's old lady felt differently. Again, her right but there's repercussions for all of us.
We all meet here for our daily coffee talk (beer talk for Swishy) but we really don't know each other all that well. Things in folk's pasts color their opinions and form their values. A little support for one of our bretheren wouldn't be out of order.
Oh blow it out your.......
Uh, is this thing on?
I mean to say, yes. You are 100% correct sir.
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Originally Posted by bobsticks
We all meet here for our daily coffee talk (beer talk for Swishy) but we really don't know each other all that well. Things in folk's pasts color their opinions and form their values. A little support for one of our bretheren wouldn't be out of order.
What you say is true. However, when you ask for opinions, you have to expect to get them. We're an opinionated bunch around here!
For the record, I support Sir T's decision to end his relationship. If he can live with his decision then it was the right one to make, regardless of the reasons. And he shouldn't give a rat's ass what any of us think. I'm even empathetic. You wake up one morning thinking that life is grand and the next minute everything's different and you're starting over. I've been there, and no matter how much Sir T may have to occupy his time and keep himself busy, he's got to be hurt.
So, although I expressed my opinion and I stand by it, I do support my brethren.
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