I know, I know, this is beating a dead horse at this point, but I just found this quote which sums up the way I feel about the ads exactly:

“I have a problem with exploiting death for political gain,” he said. “I’d have the same problem if Democrats used images of body bags coming back from Iraq in one of their ads.”

It came from a guy who lost his son in the 9/11 attacks. I'm not saying all victims' families feel like this, but this was my initial feeling when I saw the ads. Okay, I'm done with this subject now....