Maybe we are the ones who are a little slow. We already know that he is not going to take advise, yet we keep giving it.
We know that he's not going to save up for better speakers, but yet, we keep telling him to do just that.
We know that next week he will buy another set of $100 computer speakers, be we still get upset with him.

Maybe it's time that we just accept him for who he is. Next week he will be excited about a new set of Radio Shack speakers he found. They will be the best ever because the Salesman and the specs told him so. A week later he will move on to another set and be equally happy with those, for a while.

Spanky,
At the risk of giving advise that won't be listen to, the reason many get upset is because they want to help you. They take time out of their day to think up the best advise they can give you to help you out. Then often you don't even comment on their advise. You just post another question or go on about a new set of speakers. People don't want to work so hard only to be ignored. It might help if you at least responded to everyone's advise. Even when you don't agree, you could tell us why you don't agree. People will not be as upset at you if they know you are paying attention to them.
I know that you are not ready to have a job, but I've seen your website. You have a talent that people will pay you for. Maybe instead of a normal "job" you could just take on a task for someone. A task of helping someone with their website. Maybe your parents or friends might know someone who could use your help. Just one time to see how it goes. You never know. You may end up liking it. And the next thing you know, You'll have a better sound system that most of the other members here. Doesn't that sound like a whole lot of fun?