hi! am new to this forum and seek advice from you guys...

am looking to set up a good Music system.
music choice - vocals/country/pop/rock/jazz.
for speakers, am confused between Definitive BP7006, Polk Audio TSi500, JBL ES100, Klipsch RF52 II and Wharfedale Dia 10.6

all of them are within my budget (~$1000) and have been impressed by all when i first listened to them - could be a function of my lack of discernment
doing research on the internet has told me things but no conclusive direction.
yesday i auditioned JBL ES100 and DT's BP7006 - felt the ES100 were a little harsh in the upper range and was not sure of the fidelity of BP7006 - what i felt was real or just a function of the music i took with me or plain my ignorance??

can you guys please advise me? am not an audiophile and therefore this request for help but really want to set up a good audio system...
advice on amplifier (~$600) will also be highly appreciated

cheers!