Sex advice

What can help me and my gf to get more intimate in our bedroom? Lub or something else?

NO NO NO how many times PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE talk to your partner before bringing a love toy into bed - ESPECIALLY if it's their personal toy, a rabbit or whatever. I understand you think it's sexy and she uses it on her own so it must work when you're together but this is SUCH a violation of privacy! Go to a website together, make it into a game, communicate! JESUS people why do you have to be abusive if you want to make a surprise? Let's herewith swear to ALWAYS talk to our partners first.