If you don't care about 3D, Sony BDP S-390
Here's the blurb, straight from the horse's mouth.
Around $120 almost anywhere, including BB. Wireless built in (no extra cost), lots of Internet apps. They send updates to the apps periodically. And, it's amazingly tiny.
I've had one since they first.came out and love it.
Dunno what you consider "fast loading" but I've had no complaints.
Of course, it's not a universal player like the Oppo but it's not $500 either.
If you DO want 3D, check out their 590 for a few $$ more.