I had the same dilemma...
I wound up going with stuff from Audio Advisor. I wound up going with a Salamander Twin 30 set up upstairs. Very expensive but rock solid. I holds my 32 inch HDTV on top and all my components down below and it looks like the $1,000 bucks it cost. Down stairs I've an open 5 shelf rack that I bought as a demo from AA. It was a steal at 300 and came with everything and has done yoeman service for 3 years. You can pick up good deals there in there closeouts/demo listings.
Da Worfster
PS, whatever you do don't go cheap. Spend more for piece of mind. :rolleyes: