New Grado fixed the problem!
Hey, thanks guys - you are all correct. I replaced the Grado, and WOW, what a difference! I replaced the whole cart because, with such a bent cantilever, I wasn't sure what else might not be right, so I thought I'd better start fresh.
I am now a vinyl believer. This setup has better soundstaging than anything digital I've put through my system.
Thanks, too, for the idea on a higher end, but compatible, Grado stylus. That's a good idea. I'll probably try that when I want to improve it more. I'm very impressed for this being Grado's bottom-of-the-line, so to speak. Yep, it's shy on the low end, but I can compensate with the EQ and the detail and soundstaging is great at that price!
Thanks again for all the advice!
newlpguy